Ever noticed your toddler is obsessed with throwing things? Or constantly filling and emptying bags? Or circling the room endlessly like a tiny whirlwind?

That’s not just chaos (although it might feel like it). It could be a play schema — a pattern of play that helps children explore how the world works. And once you start spotting them, everything gets a bit clearer — and a lot less frustrating.

So, what is a play schema?

Schemas are repeated behaviours that show a child is working through a concept. They're not taught — they’re instinctive ways of learning.

Think of schemas as play urges that guide how a child experiments, tests, and makes sense of their environment. One child might line things up endlessly. Another might post everything into a hole. Another might spin until they're dizzy. Each is processing something important.

Why schemas matter

Understanding schemas can help you:

  • Feel less worried about “weird” play patterns

  • Offer activities that truly engage your child

  • See challenging behaviours (like throwing or climbing) in a new light

  • Support development in a way that’s aligned with their current interests

You don’t need to label everything. But when a behaviour repeats, there’s often a reason.

Common play schemas (and how to spot them)

💡 Note: Some children show one strong schema, others bounce between a few. There’s no right or wrong.

Rotation

Loves spinning wheels, turning lids, watching washing machines, twirling around.

🧠 They're exploring circular movement and cause-effect relationships.

Enclosure / Containment

Fills boxes, bags, baskets, or crawls into small spaces.

🧠 They’re figuring out in/out, boundaries, and safe spaces.

Trajectory

Throws toys, drops food, pushes objects off tables, or jumps from furniture.

🧠 They’re testing motion, gravity, and direction — not trying to annoy you.

Positioning

Lines up toys, arranges things in order or symmetry, dislikes disruption to "layouts".

🧠 They’re developing spatial awareness and early maths understanding.

Transporting

Carries objects from one place to another — over and over.

🧠 They’re learning about distance, collection, and purpose.

Connecting

Links train tracks, builds towers, joins hands or objects together.

🧠 They’re exploring how things connect and separate.

Transformation

Mixes, squashes, tears, or combines materials (like water and flour).

🧠 They’re fascinated by change, cause and effect, and sensory experience.

How to support them

  • Don’t fight the urge — channel it. Give throwers beanbags or soft balls. Give enclosers boxes and containers.

  • Repeat and extend. Offer familiar materials in new ways that build on their current schema.

  • Observe and follow. You’ll learn more by watching how they play than trying to lead it.

This isn’t strange behaviour — it’s smart behaviour.

Schemas aren’t milestones to tick off. They’re ways of thinking in motion. When you start noticing them, you’re not diagnosing — you’re connecting. And that’s what play is all about.

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